Do opposites attract in relationship?


Do opposites attract? I know there is this ‘opposite poles attract’ science law but does the law also apply to relationships? Can a man who is an indoor and home cooked meal person fall in love and maintain a healthy relationship with a woman who loves the outdoor and eating out? Can two people from different cultures and contradicting values make a relationship work?
Some study said that differences in personality make for better friendships but when it comes to romance, partners should be two of a kind. I actually agree with that study. I mean opposites may attract- say Mr. D who is shy and Ms. P who is the loud type- but they won’t make a great relationship if they have no common ground. While their differences can spice up their relationship there has to be an agreement base for a good romance and communication. Values, sexual energy and chemistry are likes that compulsorily need to attract to make a great relationship.
When you send out a frequency and attract a person of different frequency, know that when the early romance and lust is all gone, when all the dazzle and excitement of something new disappears, there won’t be much to hold you two. You will be at different ends of the pole- and none of the ends might be wrong but you are just heading to different directions. And if you’re ever going to arrive at the same destination it will take some time and huge sacrifice from one end. You have to be on the same destination to make the relationship work, else you won’t understand each other’s ground.
Love is not just a feeling, love is what we do and couples who do things together, stay together. You actually have to speak same language to communicate- except you want to get a third party interpreter. And remember there is a difference between hating something and not being into something.



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