Do opposites attract in relationship?
Do opposites attract? I know there is
this ‘opposite poles attract’ science law but does the law also apply to
relationships? Can a man who is an indoor and home cooked meal person fall in
love and maintain a healthy relationship with a woman who loves the outdoor and
eating out? Can two people from different cultures and contradicting values
make a relationship work?
Some study said that differences in
personality make for better friendships but when it comes to romance, partners
should be two of a kind. I actually agree with that study. I mean opposites may
attract- say Mr. D who is shy and Ms. P who is the loud type- but they won’t make
a great relationship if they have no common ground. While their differences can
spice up their relationship there has to be an agreement base for a good romance
and communication. Values, sexual energy and chemistry are likes that compulsorily
need to attract to make a great relationship.
When you send out a frequency and
attract a person of different frequency, know that when the early romance
and lust is all gone, when all the dazzle and excitement of something new
disappears, there won’t be much to hold you two. You will be at different ends
of the pole- and none of the ends might be wrong but you are just heading to
different directions. And if you’re ever going to arrive at the same
destination it will take some time and huge sacrifice from one end. You have
to be on the same destination to make the relationship work, else you won’t
understand each other’s ground.
Love is not just a feeling, love is
what we do and couples who do things together, stay together. You actually have
to speak same language to communicate- except you want to get a third party
interpreter. And remember there is a difference between hating something and
not being into something.
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